Your bridesmaids are incredibly dear to you. So cherished in fact, that you’d do anything to let them know just how much you appreciate them.
For those searching for inspiration on how to do just that, we’ve got a ton of ideas—15 to be exact.
This piece is dedicated to making your bridesmaids feel all warm and fuzzy inside, knowing how much they are loved.
Because there are plenty of opportunities to share how much you care, we’ve broken this piece into sections: There are ideas on special ways you can ask them to be bridesmaids, ways you can spoil them pre-wedding, and how to share the love on your big day, so they feel honored as well.
Special Ways to Ask Your Friends to be Bridesmaids
Asking close friends to be bridesmaids in your wedding is a huge deal. Yes, you can always call them or send a text, but there are plenty of other cute and fun ways you can pop the question, so to speak.
1. Send them a gift basket
The gift basket can contain a candle, skincare, bath products—all the things you know they love.
Check out Etsy for more darling ideas.
2. Take them out to dinner
Whether you take them individually or as a group. Treat them to a night out, and ask them to be your bridesmaids in person.
3. Send them a T-shirt that says ‘Bridesmaid’
This is a fun way to ask, and there’s a bonus: your bridesmaids now have matching tops to wear to the bachelorette party.
4. Create custom jewelry
For those who need another excuse to visit the Hobby Lobby, consider this yours…
5. Send monogrammed gift
There’s something lovely about receiving a personalized wine glass, or a thick fuzzy robe. These gifts are not only useful, they’re packed with sentimental value.
Ways to Make Your Bridesmaids Feel Special Pre-Wedding
As the wedding planning gets underway, your bridesmaids are there each step of the way.
A simple ‘thank you’ goes a long way, and there are many ways to express your gratitude.
6. Bridesmaids brunch
Treat your bridesmaids to brunch—maybe before you go dress shopping. Address the group, expressing how lucky you are, or give each of your bridesmaids a personalized thank you card.
7. Let them weigh in on the dress decision
Another way to share your appreciation is by allowing your bridesmaids to assist in the bridesmaid dress selection process. They’re the ones who will be wearing the gowns after all, and they’ll really appreciate having a say in the matter.
8. Be financially considerate
Since bridesmaids are usually financially responsible for their dresses, the bachelorette party, travel expenses and more, being considerate of their financial situation is another way to show your appreciation.
Asking each bridesmaid individually what her budget is. For those who don’t have the budget to fully participate, offer to cover them and make up the difference, or request a low-key bachelorette party. Those are usually the most fun, anyway.
9. Communicate the value each brings
How does each of your bridesmaids’ shine? Share that with them. Never underestimate the power of a thoughtful compliment.
10. Be considerate of their time
Balancing bridesmaids’ duties on top of everyday life may require your friends to hire a babysitter or request time off work. Be respectful and gracious of their time and effort.
11. Gift matching jewelry
Let’s be real, everyone loves getting jewelry as a gift. Especially when it’s tied to a significant event. Give your bridesmaids matching jewelry, and they’ll feel your appreciation… and look extra glam with their matching necklaces on your wedding day.
12. Surprise them with a pre-wedding spa date
What’s better than a pamper session? A pamper session with your best friends!
Treat your bridesmaids to a spa date a few days before your big day. Enjoy facials, a massage, and mani-pedis together.
Your bridesmaids will positively glow as a result.
13. Cover hair and makeup expenses
How do you ensure your bridesmaids look flawless and feel taken care of? You cover their hair and makeup expenses. The results are worth every penny.
14. Provide champagne and snacks
In the hustle and bustle of wedding day prep, often the real essentials—like snacks and champagne—are forgotten.
Create a spread of high-protein bites, such as a charcuterie board with salami and fruit, and serve with bubbly.
This is the perfect treat for everyone to nibble on during the preparation for the wedding ceremony.
15. Say thank you from the heart
Share your overall appreciation for everything each of your bridesmaids contributed with a heartfelt card. Tuck a little gift inside, such as a framed photo of all of you together.
This is a beautiful way to express your immense gratitude. After all, there’s no way you could have pulled any of this off without them.
Conclusion:
Take the ideas that resonate, and your bridesmaids will feel just as blessed to have you, as you do to have them.
